LOVE: I’M A LONELY GIRL, IN A LONELY WORLD

Relate ka sa title? Nasa right age ka na to marry pero yung status mo sa facebook single pa rin or looking for the prince charming? Pressured ka ba kasi kahit nagyayaya ng date eh wala talaga? MU nga wala, date pa kaya? Sabi nga ni PNOY, “Eh, di wow!”

Tanong ko naman sayo, nagreready ka ba talaga or passively waiting ka lang for ‘the one’ mo? Nakakasalubong mo na pala siya araw-araw pero hindi siya naeencourage na ligawan ka kasi hindi pa niya makita na ikaw ang ‘the one’ niya. Malay mo inaantay niya lang na makitang ready ka di ba? Paano ka nga ba maghahanda for the one mo? Here are the threesome you can do upon waiting for the one:

1.       Never wait, wait and wait only. PREPARE! Yun bang wala kang ginagawa para maprepare mo ang sarili mo sa marriage. Yes! You heard it right. Marriage. Pasaan pa ba pupunta ang relasyon nyo kung hindi doon din di ba? If hindi ito ang goal mo at goal nya, huwag kayong paasa pwede ba?

 Hindi ka pa pala marunong magluto, maglaba, mamalantsa, maglinis o mag-alaga ng bata. Yes, oo maaring may house staff kayo. Pero iba pa din kung hands-on ka no. Kung ganoon lang din, sana yung house staff na lang niyo ung pinakasalan niya no.

2.       Guard your heart. Guard and protect your heart. Sabi nga sa Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) “Above all else, guard your heart. For everything you do flows from it.” Mahirap kaya yung kung sino-sino na lang jan yung mapili mo na hindi naman karapat-dapat. It would only cause you both so much pain and sorrows. Mamaya mauwi pa yan sa depression at kung ano pa magawa mo no.

Isa pang point is ito. Ayon sa nabasa ko sa wattpad, “So many girls fall in love with the wrong guys, simply because the wrong guys say the right things.” Ehem! May natamaan pa di yan? Hehe. Tamaan na kung tamaan. Pero wag naman sana yung dumating lang siya at sinabi niyang ibibigay niya ang buwan at mga bituin sayo eh sasagutin mo na. Think clearly, never be run out of emotions and search for the answers through God’s guidance, the Bible.

THE LAST AND THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL:

3.       Find ‘The Only One’. Hanapin mo muna yung ‘The Only One’ mo. Mamaya hindi mo pa pala nakikita ang tunay na pag-ibig mo, mahirap yun. Malay mo, ito ung dahilan kung bakit palaging failure ang resulta ng relationships mo in the past. Hindi mo pa kasi nahahanap ang GREAT LOVE MO, si God. Find Him. Love Him and have your faith and care be upon to Him.

Maaaring hindi rin sya ang focus ng past relationships mo noon kaya nahihirapan kayong magkaroon ng middle point sa relasyon. Sabi nga di ba? Sa relationship there will always be a LOVE TRIANGLE. Si God on top, tapos kayong dalawa between nya. Hindi pwedeng kayo lang dalawa no. Hindi sa inyo umiikot mundo at hindi kailanman mangyayari yun. Pag nangyari yun, aba’y GOD BLESS you.

To all the girls out there, syempre kasama na ko dun, here are my simple advices. Maaring hindi mo pa nagagawa yung mga simpleng bagay na ito pero why don’t you start now with the most important one? Wala naming huli pagdating kay God. Lahat tayo priority niya. Every single day, every minute, every second iniisip ka Niya at minamahal. He even encrypted your name on his palm. HE LOVED YOU WITH HIS MOST. Search for Him and He will give the desires of your heart. Have faith and cast your worries upon Him.

Maaaring ngayon hindi pa niya binibigay sayo si ‘The One’. TRUST HIM, HAVE PATIENCE AND PREPARATION IN WAITING. In the right time, right moment at right place mame-meet mo din siya. Malay mo dahil dito ma-meet mo na siya. LOL! Yun muna. God bless you always. J

Happy thoughts,

Ellie

P.S. I remembered what Max Lucado said and I also want to share this to you…

“A woman’s heart should be  so hidden in God, that a man has to seek Him just to find her. "J

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